Mozza (7) + Links to success stories

[25yearsmlc]

Thanks all. I'm really grateful for the outpouring of support and suggestions for this milestone in my sitch. Here's a translation of the message I'm about to send.

"Yes, I suggest we don't meet for lunch. You've chosen to leave and now I need to reduce our contacts to move on. I'll continue to be cordial and to collaborate for all that relates to the kids."

If I'm too late, then so be it. But that one sentence^^ is just you blaming her, again.

Can't you ever just tell her how you feel about less contact & moving forward -

and Not bring up or "Explain" anything else? I'm betting she'd be able to guess why.

Now, I think she'll again see you as still blaming her and unchanged, and

at best, she'll tell herself to treat you with kid gloves, for "even longer"...

Is that really your goal? (I know it's not.)

Sure, You will tell yourself you "just had to tell her" so you could protect yourself,

but that's why I left part of your wording^^ up there. It's that crossed out sentence that will get you every time.

Let it go. Move forward for real, GAL for real and DETACH.

Those^^ are reasons to reduce contact w/your w...(& you could have said those).

Anyhow, I don't want to beat a dead horse.

Carry on Mozza, Because in general

you're still very much on course

There are very good things around the corner for you. Get excited about the life You are creating for yourself. It's time for that.
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