I keep forgetting to check the boards that aren't newcomers til I remember that yours is over here.
I can understand your worried by the solicitor but its really a sensible thing. You've just got to manage his you use them. Plus the 'I will need to talk to my solicitor' is an incredibly useful card if your WAS is pushing you too hard.
I've had good advice from mine about the fault divorce options and what it all actually means. Once you've spoken to them you'll feel on more solid ground.
Before you go work out all your questions and read up what you can. The gov.UK site has the key basics.
Also I'd suggest looking up a bunch of Theodon's posts to get the right frame of mind.
Speaking to a solicitor is more about peace of mind than anything else.
Hope you have a good day.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress