It sounds like she is going through a very mixed up period in her life. Healthy Mothers don't not see their kids over Christmas and Bdays. Can you think of her as someone that is going through a bad time and not behaving well?

Detach and be the rock that your son needs. His Mother is walking a path she needs to at the moment trying to find herself. She is probably not very happy inside. You can't fix her. She needs to figure herself out. Detaching protects you from her bad behavior. Good luck!

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.