Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #4

[TLEE86]

HP....BREATHE.....

OTOH do I do what Wonka and others say... leave my bleeding ego at the door and support her effort to be supermom while she destroys our family?

I think this is ideal, even Sandi pointed out that you have to be friendly-when the time is right. In your case, this is not possible at the moment. You are so angry, borderline hostile to your W, and her own emotions seem to change by the minute. Just the combination of the 2 is a scary mix.

I am worried that if you 2 continue this volatile mix when neither of you are ready to even begin to be friendly, that you are hurting your chances for R. Both of you need space. Every situation is different, but for you guys right now, I think its best if both of you just STFU for...X time and regroup. I know you have thrown this idea out to her before, but i feel like its time to say it again...