HP, first, awesome on going to CF tonight. Don't worry, unless your Calibri, no one does it at RX so congrats. Keep it up. And yes, CF girls are pretty cute. Look up Camille LeBlanc. She's my girl crush. And she would literally crush me. S&M? Haha just kidding..

Im going to take back what I said to you many times before, because Sandi really hit it home. Ive thought this before, but it never really clicked until today. YOU NEED A BREAK and SPACE from your own W. The more I read your posts, the more frustrated and angry and just TIRED you sound...I can see how hard you are trying HP, you really really are. But your W is something else, and I do not mean to be disrespectful. She is driving you absolutely insane and it pains me to see you like this because you are trying.

I think Toots had a good solution.
Originally Posted By: Toots

I partly get Sandi's thread above and I agree, showing off your best PMA right now might be a big 'ask.' I think it's more about getting to a place where you can interact in a civil and reasonably pleasant way, in the best interests of your S.

If you can do that, you have a foundation to build on.


Sorry this isn't more helpful HP, but just letting you know were here.


ME: 28
W: 24
M: 2.5yrs
T: 5yrs
BD: 22 SEP 14
W Leaves: 5 OCT 14