So W and I have been going to counselling (mediation.) I put that in parenthesis, because that's really what it is. We are not working on the M, W says she has no interest. Our kids are young and it's really to try and figure out how to communicate to each other for them. W will not talk to me outside counselling (mediation)
Reason I tell you about going w/o W working on R is that it is very emotionally difficult. I struggle with seeing the changes and how she doesn't seem happy, but determined to follow through. It pretty much throws my day away as I struggle to assess every little thing that happens. However, there is a silver lining, it's communication and that can't be bad. Take it for what it is, try not to read into it or it will start to lower your PMA. Make sure you are doing all of the DB principles. Good luck.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
