Ganb8te 3 - conquering crow pose

[Calibri]

Sometimes I just want to call him up and say: “Look, what’s going on here? Is there someone else? What are your plans once we’re eligible to file? Personally, I don’t really get this. I know things weren’t great in the lead up to BD but they weren’t always that way. After all my reading and IC sessions I’ve reached the conclusion that we are a totally normal couple with really common problems that just need to get worked through. There are MCs, couples retreats, so many things available to couples like us that have problems like ours. Why don’t we just hanker down and get this done? If we don’t they’re bound to resurface in our new relationships and we’ll have to work through them then. I’d much rather do that work with you because - in spite of everything - I actually still like you and am attracted to you. Do you still have feelings for me? You seem like you do. OK then, take my hand and lets do this!”

Right then. Just wanted to get that off my chest...

Heyyyyyyyy, I may or may not have said something similar to my H in the past. It got a mixed response with the end result being, he's still not home. *throws confetti in the air* he is talking to me though. So, maybe slight progress.

Re: read receipts. Unless your H turns it off on his end, you're going to see it. So, either you'll have to delete the text after you send it, or be faced with the knowledge that he read it and didn't say anything.

I'm assuming he hasn't said anything?

This is so hard. I'm sorry that you're having to go through this. I know how infuriating it is when text messages aren't responded to. I know how unsettling it can be to want to work on so,etching so much, but have to wait and see. IT blows.

So, you just got back from a trip, what's next on the GAL scene?

Personally, I'm binge watching shows on netflix, training for a competition and going to go and start spending time helping my family at our mountain house.

Hugs to you.