Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

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Newb3.just read your thread. I am know vet, what I will say is I think you are handling yourself very well. I think there comes a time when us Lb.spouse realize that all we can control is us. You are absolutely correct in your approach to not wanting to be freinds. Let's face it they fired us as there spouse. It's like being fired from a job. You don't want to burn any bridges.If she wants you back the only way it will ever work is for her to come back and you will need to step back and not be too available. Keep being the man you are and want to be and good things will come your way. Keep up the good work and live your life so your kids can see the good man you are.