Read your posts here and in vs thread. I wish I had better advice to offer, truth is I dont understand why anyone treats their spouse, anyone, that way. As you know my mil is similar in a cold hard controlling way. I don't get her either.
I'm glad your talking about it on the forums and hope were helping.
Cheers Ed
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015