Ten below here in town this morning, so I decided I could have a day off (a benefit of being self-employed.) And I took d17 to the Hobbit part 3. It was a great movie, although there are ALOT of battle scenes in it.

W texted me yesterday asking for our insurance agent's name. I went to Divorce Care last night, and so it took me 9 hours to respond.

I used to always sing "Baby it's cold outside" to W on cold days. I've been having an urge to text her with it, just to see the response. But given my slow response to W's question yesterday, I've decided to continue to lay low.

I haven't seen W since Thanksgiving. I haven't snooped for several weeks now, not even on FB. It's amazing, by my not snooping, I have better thoughts about my W. I keep thinking she's getting healthier, without any evidence to support that. It's one more benefit of not snooping.

Next week is W's birthday. I'm not planning anything. But perhaps it's time for a temperature check with W?

Last edited by Wet; 01/08/15 12:03 AM.

Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace