MLCer and EA w/ OW

[Jer2911]

Thanks for all of the links! Have read through some of those and will continue reading.

The tips at the end of your post are helpful as well and I think they answer my question: I should not ask the question that I want to ask because it could be viewed as more pressure.

Instead: Detach and act "as if"... I can't stop the EA anyway and I already know it's going on (and may soon be a PA), so no need to add more pressure that will push my W further away. (She's already decided on leaving anyway)

Just got home from getting a very cute new haircut and found a package of some fun new clothes that I ordered (on sale) -- feeling very good right now :-)