Thanks Toots. I agree with everything you say. I am honestly getting on with my life, I just wish I could get H and OW out of my head. I don't want to be bitter it is not healthy, but I would like to have seen how H's romance would have played out over the last year if I was the one to move out and he was left with 2 teenagers to look after. As it is he is free to come and go as he pleases and he has frequent weekends away, vacations abroad etc without a care in the world.

I need to let go.
x


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014