Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD - pt. 2

[gogofo]

I need to work on my patience. I read the forum or relationship books and I get excited to try new things or communication styles or ideas within out M/R. I get motivated. I get a feeling that our R is progressing so I think I can bring up ideas or things to try to improve us. She has done the same. The issue is when looking back that they seem to backfire.

I need to refocus on being her rock. The problem is that I am scared that by just being a rock she may get used to the passionless or sexless marriage. Probably a far off result, but one that I am fearful about.