I understand your frustration gogofo. Keep riding that patience train and be her rock. It appears as though you're trying to push things rather than letting her go through her journey. I feel that the conversation while drinking should never have happened. By all means, hear her out, then validate her and politely let her know you'll come back to it another time.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014