I'm not convinced this is the route I want to take just yet, but wanted to present my 1st draft for review should I decide to send. Tried to keep it short and removed a lot of judgement originally included. For the time being, I plan on remaining dark as possible to avoid any rash decisions. I've picked up on several great pieces of advice from other threads recently that I need to process.
'W, I've realized that despite all we've been through this past yr and a half, I still love you enough to let you go. When we attempted counseling in the fall, I told you that for me to feel secure in any type of relationship between the two of us, I needed you to end all contact with OM. It is disrespectful to me and to our marriage. I know you've told me that this is not about him, it's about finding yourself. However, seeing that you remain in contact, I am unable to continue to offer my friendship to you. Please understand that I will continue to communicate as co-parents, but no longer will we interact as friends or family. '
