Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #4

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"I know I've been focused on my W. Even in my last post when she texted I immediately felt emotion about it. It's getting better. It's just incredible to me still that she won't listen to me."

I think the best thing is just to have these thoughts and let them go. When I get myself on the....'I just can't believe he would do that track etc" it just isn't helpful. I wind myself right up. Now I just try and accept - it is what it is. I can't control him.

So, what do you do? Pleasantly maintain your boundaries when your W asks for changes to schedule. Interact civilly when you meet to exchange S or co-parent.

I partly get Sandi's thread above and I agree, showing off your best PMA right now might be a big 'ask.' I think it's more about getting to a place where you can interact in a civil and reasonably pleasant way, in the best interests of your S.

If you can do that, you have a foundation to build on. I think you're doing well HPx