Wow, so much wisdom in this thread, maybell, I wonder if you know that a majority of that wisdom is coming from YOU.
No one can tell you that you did all you could. Only you. We can validate your decision until the cows come home but until YOU validate your own choice, it won't be true, and since you really want and need the truth (who doesn't?), it seems only right that you give it to yourself. What a gift!
