Just read your last post. I love having my place clean and decorated the way I like it too. My house that is shared with hubby is a mess now, he always notices how nice my place is when he comes over. 😉 I was doing all the cooking and cleaning too. There are some pluses to living on your own. Lol
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
Thanks for your input and your wisdom, Karma. I appreciate that you took the time. Your words certainly helped me.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Plus to living on your own 1. No one to critise that youbuy the wrong bacon 2. Tantrum and spew free home 3. You can buy soft furnishings and crazy lamps 4. Put dirty dishes in your dishwasher and not have to wash then first 5. No empty bottles and jars in the fridge 6. The remote is yours and never lost 7. All the towels will be clean and dry and where you left them 8. Any and all friends you want in your home, including the funny one with the purple hair your partner hated 9. Boa constrictor as a pet if you want 10. Your own crumbs in bed 11. There will always be hot water and toothpaste 12. You can sleep all day without combing your hair 13. Crying and picking your nose permitted 14. Things are where you left them and the last of the butter goes forever 15. You can cook fish, liver and meat with bones or not as the whim takes you 16. You can diet on cabbage or chocolate cream eggs 17. The odd mystery packets in the freezer get defrosted and used 18. The grocery bill goes down and the clothes bill goes up 19. The car gets serviced at the garage 20. The ironing can be done in an ironing fest whilst watching X factor reruns 21. You exercise and loose weight
The list goes on Vanilla
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
I got them precisely because h would have thought them inappropriate, I got stopped in the street people love them. Strangers love them h can go to he!!
That's also why I got 2x new dogs as well.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Amen to #4, 5 and 6!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Really, who puts empty jars back in the fridge????? My XH, that's who. #9, not so much as I have gotten rid of the snake so I don't need a new one coming in. LOVE the list, Vanilla.
I would agree with most on your list, but for my sitch, I would add, that I am on time to everything now. My XH was/is chronically late and will be late to his own funeral. I have yet to be late to anything since he left. WOO HOO for me!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
LOL!!! I was working in a place I couldn't get online during work, today, but you guys are hilarious. I like the way you all think.
I'll add farting without being embarrassed because there's no one around to care. ROFL!
And since we're discussing bad habits, how about tinkling and getting pee-pee splatter on the floor, where it would dry and later my socks would get stuck in it? Or leaving the cupboards or drawers open after getting something from them? Yep...BF!
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ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
-polishing off a whole bag of Cheetos for dinner -having the bed sheets/comforter ALL to myself!! No hogging worries -going on a NCIS bender all day in my jammies
