Hey Zelda, much like edz I'm far from a vet and have had no success in my own sitch so take this with a grain of salt.
All I would suggest is think about what your H has said and consider this as a tunnel, have you been down it before? Did you find any cheese in pursuit? Is there some reason this time would be different then the last?
You're correct, going probably wont make anything worse. However, it may prolong the healing.
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