pain meds, depression, separation turning bad

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Not the only one with odd dreams cant remember my recent ones but I get flashes that W was returning in them and then something else happens. Think its inevitable when we're dealing with so many thoughts and feelings that our brains have a tumble dry spin of them at night!

I think - and again vets chime in - if you can listen, validate and be warm and friendly but go in with no expectations of anything other than saying "well, I tried that" then I think its a good idea.

Again I'm catching up and I know, boy do I know, the support we all need from friends and family but whilst your Mom has your best interests at heart DBing says to be careful on family advice and getting them too involved, e.g. my Dads been saying my M is over since last July and I thank him for his support and caring but try to keep him on the periphery.