Her reality is her reality. Only she can change that.
Do you want to stay on this path or are you done? Do you want to live in a LowDesire R?
(just so you know, it's pretty common for women with jobs and raising young kids to be more open to sex on vacation)
Is there abuse in her past? I read thru some of your first thread but didn't see any mention and I can't remember. You sort of fade in and fade out here.
You were both on a fast track to marriage crash. Have any of those outside pressures changed?
This comes down to who you rally want to be. I doubt that she wants you to argue with her all the time. Most likely she wants an equal partner in all aspects of life.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss