Retreat

[Marylov]

I don't want to rush it either, but he got really angry when I tried to slow play the whole house thing. He is very panicked about paying for his living arrangements along with mine at the same time. He thinks that by not doing anything about the house, I am trying to act like this isn't really happening. So I made an appointment with a realtor for the week after our retreat. I am hoping that the retreat will be a turning point for us. 10 days until then, and I plan to use those ten days to make as many changes as possible. I agree with your advice about writing down my goals. But I am finding it hard to not be pathetic/needy while trying to change my behavior since what needs to be changed is me being more attentive.