Jim0987 #9 - Blackholes, cats and overanalysis

[jim0987]

My peacefulness is to an extent resignation. I realise the mental place her mind is at and how far from our M that is.

I cheerfully do her a favour (she asked so I wasn't imposing) and she feels like she HAD to be nice to me and that she'll 'pay for that later'

She can't find some clothes, I've no idea where they are but the insuiation is that I've hidden them.

She sees, and I don't know how long for has seen, a version of me that I didn't recognise at all and only now recognise in part but her rationalising her hurt in this way is no different to me putting it all on OM and affair fog

Mk7 Jim has had some pretty unpleasant bugs as well, not seen in previous versions. Not new ones just massively amplified. At least for mk 8 there will be a better owners manual.

One new feature for mk 8 will be a pause button. If you ever watched how I met your mother, two of the characters had a 'pause' agreement with their arguments. While they were paused they didn't stew and could calm themselves while both knowing the issue wasn't done. For me taking a few minutes to process will really help, especially if I then don't avoid unpausing