Honestly, if I were you, after 2.5 years of separation and H living with another person, I would probably be done. But you are more patient it seems. But do you really want this person in your life? Really? Either way, now is the time to do NC. He has to know that he WILL lose you if he continues down this path of casual dating. Only the fear of truly losing you might wake him up. Also, I wouldn't recommend this under most circumstances, but in your case I would say that now is the time for you to try dating. He wants to date? So should you. See what your options are. You might be surprised that there are wonderful men who are not going to emotionally abuse you out there. Men that will value you. Also, this might wake him up to the reality that you are not sitting around just pining away for him. But that should not be the reason you date. The reason you date is to GAL and see how you really feel about H. Your perception might change. After 2.5 years, it's time to try something new, I'd say.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
