moving on

[Ahoy]

I haven't said anything to her about how the marriage deteriorated, because I didn't know it had. He, on the other hand, has told her that we are "incompatible" in how we manage the household (I did all the work, he did none by his choice). He told her we hadn't been getting along for years, which is a complete lie (he was writing me love notes just two weeks before BD). But he also told her that he has a girlfriend and had been lying to her about if for several months. So I think, as a teenager, she has a pretty good idea of what's really going on.