I don't see separation as a way to work on things. I only contact the her when it has to do with my daughter. on occasion she will borrow a tool or something. as far as "dating" while separated as suggested in the past..... not an option for me at this point.

if you are referring to what have I done to change..... well, I have read a lot and have learned how to communicate "love" and "needs". IF i should ever decide to enter another relationship, I will be more aware.

Last edited by lostluv; 01/07/15 09:58 AM.

me-42
w-33
d-3
together-6
m-4yr
6/1/14-w check out
6/15/14-EA?
8/1/14-mc
9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing
9/15/14-w suggest separation
10/17/14 wife is done
12/13/2014 - wife move out
me file 1/1/15