Remember Bill Clinton?

I did not have sex with that woman (Monica Lewinski).

By decree of the president of the USA oral sex doesn't count as sex.

Ludicrous.

Quit snooping and interpreting. Get on with your relationship with W and boundary on no OM. You need full disclosure on OM with W and to move on. If you sense W has disclosed then leave this behind you both. Use the Hilary Clinton manoeuvre with grace and dignity. What a lady, DB role model on how to deal with an OW or two. Whatever your views on her politics, she maximised GAL and PMA for her sanity.

In order to move on you will need to leave the past in the past. If you want M with this W then live in the present. Whether it's EA/PA or anything between it's inappropriate, but it needs to be let go as long as it is past.

Stillness
Vanilla

Last edited by Vanilla; 01/07/15 07:25 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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