I'll agree with Calibri that nosey people do. I didn't know anything about it until a female coworker I've been talking to about my sitch turned me on to it. Not that it helped me physically or emotionally, but I found out that WAW's OM has already been married twice.
I wouldn't use it for people I know, so KGirl I wouldn't worry there.
I know I'll probably use it if WAW and I divorce and I find another potential W. Hey, you never know, they might be hiding a crime or there 20 year old child from a previous marriage.
Me:30 W:34 M:8 T:9 D:9 D:4 D:3 S:4 S:1 D bomb: 8/2014 S 12/2014 PA Confirmed in 3/2015 if I recall correctly