KGirl - one year later con't

[Maybell]

Really?

I don't even know how to search the public records in my state.

You're displacing your anger at him on this administrative thing. What if you said, flat out, "I'm angry that I behaved like a person of integrity and fought for the commitment we made so publicly, and he thinks it's appropriate to just wander off."

That actually makes ME kind of feel better. Because it is so true.

Go a little further? "I am angry and a little fearful that people are going to misattribute his low moral fiber to me and I want to control that impression."

Hm. Rings true for me too.

Betsey's/Underdog's most recent post to me reminded me only to carry the burden of blame that belongs to me and not anybody else's. Reclaim your name without fear of others' opinions. The people who matter understand.