KGirl - one year later con't

[KGirl]

I'm really irrationally angry right now that the D is in the public court records website. I have a pretty unique first/last name combination (both my married name and maiden name), so when you type it in that is the only person and result you get. For everyone to see. How come a D has to be in there but the fact that you got M doesn't? H has a more common first/last name combination and there are numerous people/records with it... it p*sses me off. He can just take off his ring and people may not even notice. If I want to change my name back everyone will know. If I don't I'm stuck with his name indefinitely, it's lose-lose.