I thought everything was okay...(Part 2)

[Mozza]

Have you done any research on the ideal time split for the kids? Maybe there's a help line where you live? Google it. Also, you can find info online about the time split. I'm concerned you've painted yourself in a corner with W and won't change your mind on principle, regardless of what you find.

Your W's attitude is baffling, from what you report. All I can advise is to take note of it and not expect anything different. She's definitely not herself. Look at Card29's W who's attitude in the last few months suddenly made sense when she revealed her A. Yours will have a different explanation, but I mean that you don't have enough info to make sense of it. Still, it's really strange that you have one of the most"fearful" wife yet no explanation even for the S. I really wish we'll know more one day!