Don't assume you have been replaced. No one can really replace the essence of you. He will figure that out in time. I felt exactly like you did when my hubby and I separated. Within weeks of me moving out he moved in his AP from Eastern Europe. I felt like she had just moved into my place and his life moved on without a bump. I was miserable spending my first Christmas without him and he was having a great time with his new girlfriend. Recently he told me that that was the worst year of his life and it even affected his health. My own mind made it worst for me. You sound a lot like me in regards to having abandonment issues and taking care of everyone around you. Ask yourself this "why are you attracting emotionally unavailable men into your life.? A IC asked me that question an number of yrs ago. Don't make him your project.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
