"And yes, I now know and EMBRACE that (1) this is not really about me (2) I am not responsible for her happiness and (3) it is not my fault that she is doing what she is doing. DONE, DONE and DONE."
I'm in a simular situation. These posts are really helping me along as well. One day I'm willing to forgive , another to move on. W needs to get out of the fog and come "home". Roller coaster ride indeed.
