Mozza, I've not been confronted with this OP scenario (yet) but in reading here I get the impression it is better to state WHY you don't want any contact (OM). Otherwise WAS just gets annoyed that you've suddenly gone NC and doesn't understand why. In contrast, if you state your reasons they know what they have to do to end the NC.

Hopefully Wonka will weigh in soon.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014