You need to catch back on up on boundaries:

Starksy discussing boundaries

also, train has a great thread somewhere on the infidelity forum that has cliff notes for boundaries...what they're for and how to use them. Can someone find a link? I'm on my phone and am struggling to find it...


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23