G - Apple forums usually have good articles, but I don't think so.
I know it's hard to imagine the best with too much information and it all has a way of being a nuisance, no matter if you imagine them miserable, happy, or anything else.
Happy New Year to you, I am inspired with all the joys and goals you're going after.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on