Double check your settings, G. My understanding is that if you've turned if off so that others can't tell when YOU'VE read a text, it goes the other way, too (you shouldn't be able to see when THEY'VE read it).

I could be very wrong, but that's my understanding.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies