Maybell, it's been a while since I've posted much around here, but I read your thread (and others) every day. My two cents..
You don't seem to put forward any reason to stand other than you feel you ought to.. and that's not reason enough. I truly feel that you need to do something here that empowers you. It might not be to file, but the only way you are going to stop taking his chit is to stop taking it. I *think* you once said you'd never file and that if he wanted it, he'd have to do it.. but I think it's time to take the bull by the reigns, so to speak.
