No. Your W isn't playing games. She's trying to reconnect with you.
I liked how you interacted with W. Don't get too deep into naval gazing that you miss out on the positive forward movements. This is tremendous. You would want to be warm to W and not make any outlandish demands. It will take some time for you two to reconnect. Trust the process and be gentle with W.
List of the positives:
-feeling good at work -happy and talkative -hugged the kids -hugged you -talking with you -went to bed early -didn't have her phone with her -sent you a text
