It's easier to submit to new relationship feelings than it is to work on an old R where you're sick of the person's chit (at the moment). He wants good feelings handed to him, he doesn't want to work for them.

Joke's on him. If you don't know how to problem solve and compromise, you're dead in the water EVERY SINGLE TIME it becomes necessary.

Have fun Tarzan'ing from one R to the next, 'cause you're not going to get away from it. You're going to get sick of OW's chit sooner or later, too, and then it's on to the next piece of booty that makes you giggly again.

Not me. I'd rather put in the work and have something strong from the effort, something I can be proud of.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies