Maybe I missed it but have you asked him the reasoning behind the get together?
I'm with you, he sounds like a real winner(sarc) & u deserve better. Do keep in mind though that anyone can change. Whether it's good or bad is ultimately up to them.
It's kinda simple really, if a meeting won't put you in a good place don't go. Do what is best for YOU! That's not selfish as he has indicated through words AND actions that y'all are not a team. Ergo you don't have to take one for the team.
Prayin for you!
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I wish I could love you and make you believe it 'Cause that's all you ever wanted From me