I am asking myself that question. The problem is that the person I have been living with since October is the complete opposite of the person I have lived with and loved for 9.5 years. That person would never be involved in an EA -- in fact, when we first met she said in no uncertain terms that infidelity was the only deal-breaker in her opinion and that she would be able to forgive me for anything and everything but that... And here she is doing just that.
So yeah... I'm working on letting go with love with the knowledge that the person I know and love may be gone forever.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
