Finally got the necessary financial info from H, and requested appointment with L to work on separation and parenting agreement proposal. In some way it's surreal -- the interaction between H and me is all business, very calm and professional -- a tone I have promoted between the two of us. It's hard to imagine that the person I knew so intimately for 15 years is just no longer that person (and maybe I hadn't known him so well after all). But I am at peace with that, and with my decision to move forward on my own path.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!