Also: having a hard time with how you spend 10 years with someone as a part of your daily life and then one day you split and insert a new person into their spot and pretend the previous person never existed.
Yes -- he had plenty of time to mentally do the detaching he needed to do to get there, which I was not involved in until the bomb dropped.
It's still bullsh*t.
Sorry, journaling and feeling bratty, today. These are things I've said/felt before.
I am kind of in that same place, though I am trying to move past it. I guess that is why I was so emotional yesterday. How can a person claim to love someone so deeply, then just become a different person overnight, seemingly? I think if we all could figure out how to reconcile that, we would be millionaires. Hugs to you, Little. You sound like you are doing well, despite these down turns.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
