I read your post in my thread. My first suggestion, is to relax and not put any pressure on him. He knows what you want.
If you are putting pressure on him, it comes across as being needy and clingy. It is unattractive. You want to be the opposite of that.
You mentioned that he agreed to attend a retreat with you. That is a significant positive. It will help you both dig deep. Let the program do what it is designed to do.
Can you fill us in a little about your story? How did things fall apart? What caused the demise of your M/R? It will help us, help you.
Have you read the Divorce Remedy?
The change begins with you.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
