Originally Posted By: little
I want to be fought for, loved for who I am, appreciated for my personality and my humor, and I want someone to go, 'there is NO way I'm giving up on this woman; we'll work on our R or we'll die trying, but living without her is not an option for me'.


Its funny (not haha funny though) this is what my tells her friends she wants, this is how I feel about her (codependent much?) And at the same time DB advice is to not fight for her but let her go - I'll say this, its definitely counterintuitive.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress