(((Jim)))...I am finally catching up after a few days away and my heart just goes out to. What you said about how wife told kids your S was a mutual decision really resonated with me because that is the story my XH wants to tell as well. I let him tell his daugthers that, but I told my family and friends teh real story. My heart hurts for you but I know you are going to be just fine and dandy.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids