Originally Posted By: Little
I will admit that regardless of knowing all that stuff above, the prospect that he becomes that better man to hold on to OW makes me sick to my stomach. That's an ego thing, I assume. Something I shouldn't be thinking or worrying about.

But I'm human and that's raw honesty.


Thanks, Wonka. smile I appreciate your input! smile


I feel EXACTLY the same way about my XH and his OW. I, too, think it is ego. That I stood beside him through some really rough times for him, but now he has moved on to have fun with this person. I don't want to think that she might be his happily ever after, but she may very well be. Ugh....

I feel ya, Little....I feel ya. Hang in there!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids