Lost nailed it -- I want to have ONE time where I hear honesty from him. Tinder and dating aren't the point; the point is, I don't want to waste a perfectly good evening listening to more BS. Just because I don't believe a word he's said I don't want to go. But if I go and listen to more lies, I'd like to say that I know they're lies and that I'm done. And have him know for absolute certain that I mean it.
But maybe I'll go, I'll listen to his BS, and I'll have papers as soon as I can. Then it'll be actions, not words, and perhaps he'll remember who I am.
If he's being honest, will you believe him? It seems not.
You're hurt and I get that and maybe he is a lying sack o shite but if you're not going to believe him why not just cancel the meeting and file.
Don't set a trap.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss