We had a discussion about rings last year....my W removed hers within days of leaving. I kept mine on. I could see she was uncomfortable when she saw this. Our discussion last year about this topic concluded that there was no "right" or "wrong" answer. Its a personal choice. They aren't going to stay or go because you are wearing it or because you took it off. My 2 cents...


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14